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Aging in the 21st Century, by T.W. Arnold



 “O wonder!

How many goodly creatures are there here! How beauteous mankind is!

O brave new world! That has such people in't!”

Shakespeare, The Tempest, Act V, Scene 1


Introduction


          An aging wave of souls as no era has known before is about to break onto the shore of our cultural, economic, social, and institutional landscapes.  On January 1, 2011, the youngest of the American “Baby Boomers,” born between 1946 and 1964, achieves the age of 65.  Following them are 76 million more persons – the largest generation in the history of the United States.  This sea of “later lifers” will wash over our society and challenge its increasingly limited resources for decades to come.  That challenge will include competition for resources between young and old.  A Baby Boomer born in 1964 who lives to be 100 will die in 2064, 55 years hence.


          The mental health community is inextricably poised to serve as mid-wives to this gigantic transition.  Opportunities not merely to make a dignified living but also to serve this rising tide of humanity and so to help set the course for the generations that trail will soon be abundant and enormously fulfilling for clinicians with vision.  Yet biases, discomforts, the relative lack of investigation and research into the aging process and aging families as compared with other phases of the individual and family life cycles, together with the reluctance of this generation themselves to utilize such resources, leaves some mental health professionals inadequately prepared to greet this new world.


I.  Who Are These “Later Lifers”?


           Although the “graying of America” (Lemme, 2006, p. 6) is much heralded, its implications are not being sufficiently addressed.  These human beings are our grandparents, aunts and uncles, fathers, mothers, brothers and sisters, blended, half and step relatives, families of choice, mentors, teachers, leaders, the poor and underprivileged, our friends, and – inevitably – one day our very selves.  This “disconnect” is fascinating since each of us will never experience being a child again but each of us will intimately experience aging.  The success of younger individuals and families is linked to the success of this older population as it journeys through the life cycle.


A.  By the Numbers


The “aging” are generally considered to be 65 years or older.  The Older Americans Act of 1964 applies to persons 60 and older (Greenberg, 2005).  Walsh (2005)  notes “[l]ater life is being redefined in terms of the ‘young old,’ persons age 60 to 85 …, and the ‘old old’ or ‘fourth age’ of elders over 85” (p. 307).  Blacker (2005) describes the preceding age period of “midlife” as “spanning the ages of roughly 45 to 65,…”  She predicts that “[b]ecause of better health and increasing longevity, [the mid-life characterization] may get expanded even more in the future” (p. 288).


Changes in population demographics in the past 110 years are astounding.  In 1900 an average male born in the United States could expect to live to 48 years of age and the average female to 51.  Males born in this country in 2003 can expect to achieve the age of 75 years and females to the age of 80 (Yorgason et al., 2009).  Compounding this transformation are the decreasing fertility rates over the same period that have radically increased the proportion of older adults within the population.  In 1900, 4.1 percent of the population was over the age of 65.  In 2000 this number had increased to 12.4 percent (Yorgason et al., 2009, p. 29).  According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration on Aging (2008), as of 2010 thirteen percent of the population, or 40,228,712 persons, will be age 65 or older.  Over the coming decade these numbers will increase to sixteen percent and by 2030 to almost twenty percent, leaving more Americans over the age of 65 (72,091,915) than under the age of twenty-five.  These relative percentages are expected to stabilize through 2050, when 88,546,973 adults will be 65 or older.  Contrast these numbers with 2000, when 12.5 % of the United States population was over 65, comprising 34,991,751 persons.


B.  Characterizations of Aging Persons in the Popular Culture


            Popular culture reflects existential, cultural, and other biases about the aging that are reflected in the nomenclature and characterizations of this group.  For instance, the aging are variously characterized with such pejoratives as “geezers,” “crones,” “grey-backs”, “grey-beards,” “silver-hairs,” “silverbacks,” “blue-hairs,” “raisins,” “grannies,” “old fogeys,” “the twilight generation”, “golden ponders,” “curmudgeons,” “centenarians,” “dodderers,” “fossils,” “dotards,” “antediluvians,” “has-beens,” “oldsters,” “cougars,” “the senile,” “old-fashioned,” and “senior citizens.”           


            This “ageism” extends to MHP’s.  Even the mental health research isn’t sure what to appropriately call “elders,” describing them as “the aging,” “age disadvantaged,” “widows,” “widowers,” “late lifers,” “the old,” and the “age challenged.”  Butler (1989) defines “ageism” as “negative attitudes and practices that lead to discrimination against the aged” (p. 139).


C.  Historical Lack of Interest Towards Aging


          Hence, there is a need in the mental health sciences to improve the quality of later life and to support elder relationship.  Allen, Blieszner, and Roberto (2000) observe that “[r]esearch on families in the middle and later years [only] came into its own in the 1990s….  In the 1990s, a shift occurred in describing the complexity, malleability, and variety of family connections in the second half of life,…” (p. 911).  They explain that “[n]ew areas of investigation turned the study of aging families from a monolithic conception of the ‘aging individual within “The Family”’ to greater awareness of the challenges and innovations associated with variability in later family life” (p. 920).  While they anticipated rich investigation into later life families during the first decade of 2000 it is not clear that that promise has been met. 


            Yorgason, Miller, and White (2009) note that there remain a number of barriers that block needed services from reaching this population.  These include the lack of payment/-insurance resources (and unavailability of Medicare reimbursement), negative attitudes towards psychotherapy among the older generation, restricted mobility of the elders themselves, myths and stereotypes about the aged, therapist discomfort with their own aging, lack of therapist training, lack of interest in aging issues, and a belief that older persons cannot change (pps. 29-30).  Moreover the field of marriage and family therapy has historically focused on the problems of the young.


            I performed a search within the Journal of Marriage and Family from 2000 to 2009 and found four articles that included the word “aging” in their titles.  I had the same result within the Journal of Family Relations.  Nothing appeared in the year old Journal of Family Therapy and Review.  Other than as listed in these periodicals there is a single NCFR (2005) Family Focus publication on issues involving the aging that contains about fifteen brief articles.  By way of contrast, within the Journal of Marriage and Family 112 titles contained the word “children” between 2000 and 2009 and similarly 58 articles within the Journal of Family Relations.


II.  Common Experiences of Aging


A.            Cognitively Impaired Older Persons


           Older people react more slowly, both psychologically and physiologically.  Short-term memory and problem solving abilities diminish with age, and most people in later life have lowered stamina and recover from trauma more slowly (DeMuth, 2004).   Severe cognitive impairment affects almost five percent of community residing adults over age 65 years, and between 15.8 to 30% of those over age 85 (Qualls, 2000).  These numbers are higher in acute medical and institutional settings. 


            Cognitive decline impacts the entire family unit.  Qualls (2000) notes “[t]he degree of adjustment required of the individual with cognitive impairment is profound” (p. 193).  She argues for a family systems approach to therapy with aging families.  “The simplest rationale for considering family level interventions for older persons is that families are highly salient social relationships for them” (p. 191).  The developmental task includes significant renegotiation of family structures.  When family structures prevent a family from meeting members’ needs, a family level intervention is required to restore stasis.  This is frequently the case with dementia sufferers, where a ‘dawning of awareness’ for the problem produces ambiguities for other member’s responses to the elder person in transition.


            B.            Non-Cognitively Impaired Older Persons/Successful Aging


            The concept of “successful aging” has been addressed in the mental health literature for almost 50 years.  Phelan and Larson (2002) report that it means different things to different clinicians.  Key elements include concepts of “life satisfaction,” “longevity,” “freedom from disability,” “mastery/growth,” “active engagement with life,” “high independent functioning, and “positive adaptation.”  Predictors of successful aging include high educational levels, regular physical activity, high self-efficacy, social contacts and supports, and freedom from chronic illnesses.


            Studies of the attitudes of older adults themselves suggest that their definition of successful aging is multi-dimensional, encompassing physical, functional, psychological, and social health.  (Phelan, Anderson, LaCroix, and Larson, 2004, p. 211).  Yet, Phelan et al. (2004) note that the published work doesn’t typically describe these attributes as all being included within the definitions of successful aging. 


            Non-cognitively impaired older adults may develop compensatory tactics to deal with these changes.  Schulz and Heckhausen (1996) have theorized that a life span theory of control allows for a model of “developmental regulation” (p. 708) that applies to the elderly.  They distinguish between “primary control” which targets the external world and attempts to achieve results in the immediate environment outside the individual and “secondary control” which deals with self-regulation responses within the individual.  In their view, primary control holds functional primacy over secondary control because “it enables individuals to explore and shape their environment to fit their particular needs and optimize developmental potential” (Schulz et al., 1996, p. 708). 


            A compensatory response to old age where an individual’s capacity to affect outcomes within the environment is negatively implicated results in a decrease in available choices when primary control is employed.  For instance, there is less time to master the guitar or to play the piano as one’s mind and hands slow.  Therefore Schulz et al. (1996) reason that “[i]ncreasing age-related biological and social challenges to primary control put a premium on secondary control strategies as means for maintaining the potential for primary control.  As the ratio of gains to losses in primary control becomes less and less favorable, the individual increasingly resorts to secondary control processes” (p. 709).   Secondary control increases and primary control wanes.


C.      Resilience Theory


            Resilience is an attribute of successful aging.  “Resilience has been defined as the capacity to remain well, recover, or even thrive in the face of adversity” (Hardy, Concato, and Gill, 2004, p. 257).  It was first described by researchers in childhood and adolescent development as a factor enabling children in adverse circumstances to develop into well-adjusted, successful adults.  For instance, Windle, Markland, and Woods (2008) trace resilience from a theoretical perspective to Erickson’s theory of the life cycle.  This postulates “that the continuing developments of the self across the life span and the ultimate achievement of wisdom provide a basis for the resilient self” (p. 289).  Baltes and Baltes (1990) extended it to later lifers. 


           Similar to findings in crisis intervention, resilience is a measure of coping responses to stress.  It examines “the process by which individuals survive or even thrive under adversity, incorporating internal traits, such as hardiness or high self-efficacy, and external factors, such as social support, that promote coping” (Windle et al., 2008, p. 289).  The importance of assessing resilience for the aging includes the possibility that clinicians may learn to distinguish older persons who are more likely to “bounce back” after illness or injury from those who may have a more difficult course and therefore need a more customized intervention.  Resilience in older adults has been linked to spirituality (Atchley, 2008).


           Concato et al. (2004) examined resilience among a cohort of community dwelling older persons – meaning they were nondisabled and living with others - and found “a wide range of resilience, as assessed by response to a stressful life event” (p. 260).  They define a resilient response as a small initial decremental effect of a stressful event, a rapid recovery, minimal long-term negative consequences, and positive long-term consequences of the event.  A limitation of the study was that no real stressful events were imposed; instead, participants were asked about their memories of stressful events and they were asked to rate them.  This information was used to generate a six-item resilience scale.  Another limitation is that the authors provide very little information on the living contexts of their participants.


            In comparison Hawkley and Cacioppo (2007) summarize studies of age differences in associations between loneliness (social isolation) and individual differences in health behaviors, stress exposure, physiological stress responses, appraisal and coping, and restorative processes.  They note that repeated research that has shown that a lack of social ties increases risk for poor health, and comment that “[i]n light of this research, sociodemographic changes in American society indicate a disturbing trend toward increased social isolation” (p. 187). 


D.     Emotional Functioning


            According to Samanez-Larkin, Robertson, Mikels, Carstensen and Gotlib (2009), “[a]

growing body of research suggests that the ability to regulate emotion remains stable or even improves across the adult life span” (p. 519).  In comparison to their younger counterparts, older adults recover more quickly from negative emotional states, are more positive, report superior emotional control, and exhibit less physiological arousal when experiencing negative emotions.  This is a ‘paradox of aging.’ 


            Despite age-related losses in function, well-being remains surprisingly high in old age.  Socioemotional selectivity theory proposes that people prioritize well-being as their life time horizons shorten.  Thus aging is associated with increased motivation to maintain emotional balance and as a consequence more cognitive and social resources are allocated to the regulation of emotion.  Indeed, Samanez-Larkin et al. (2009) cite recent studies that have found that older adults selectively attend to positive stimuli and are more likely to retrieve positive memories than negative ones.  They call this the “positivity effect” (p. 519), which they describe as a motivated shift from a preference for negative information in younger adults to a preference for positive information at older ages.  At the same time it has been suggested while older people appear to deploy resources in favor of positive material, when cognitive load becomes too great or requires the processing of both positive and negative stimulation the positivity effect disappears.


            To explore these theories within the context of neural functioning, they devised a study utilizing neuroimaging to examine selective attention to emotional stimuli in older adults as they were exposed to lexical, or associated word, tasks.  The goal was to use both behavioral and neural measures of interference to examine age differences in the ability to apply selective attention.  A primary task included making an emotional categorical judgment as a control, which was then modified to supply interference that was imposed by incongruent  (positive-negative) word juxtapositions.  The subjects were scanned during these tasks by an MRI of the prefrontal region of the brain. 


            The results suggested that older adults are at least as able as younger adults to selectively process and successfully inhibit both negative and positive stimuli when the task demanded it.  Older adults had more difficulty with nonemotional tasks where interference was applied than younger adults had.  The findings for younger adults were reversed. 


III.  Roles of Therapists/Treatment Modalities


            Yorgason et al. (2009) recently undertook a study of therapists’ training in later life issues, and their knowledge and attitudes towards aging.  While there are indications in the literature that specific training in elder issues is appropriate to treating that population, training about aging issues in MFT graduate programs is typically optional.  Students are required by accredited institutions to take course work in the areas of “’human development, family dynamics, systemic thinking, interactional theories, traditional and contemporary marriage and family therapy theories, research, and the cultural context in which they are embedded’ [citation omitted], yet students may still earn graduate degrees without having taken classes specific to later life ” (Yorgason et al., 2009, pps. 30-31).  Marriage and family therapists do not receive training in this subspecialty unless by coincidence or choice they take optional courses.  This reflects “ageism” within the profession (Butler, 1989).  In order to dispel it, Butler proposes that MHP’s must gain an experiential and not just an intellectual knowledge of the circumstances of these older persons.


            Yorgason et al. (2009) conducted a web based interview by questionnaire of 191 clinicians.  Since participation was voluntary, those already having some sensitivity and interest in aging were more likely to be respondents.  Their findings suggest the following:


·      40% reported that they agreed or agreed strongly that their training had prepared them to work with older adults and their families, but 60 % reported they were neutral or disagreed or strongly disagreed that their training had prepared them very well.  The majority reported having at least some training in aging issues, but they did not feel that training had prepared them well to work with older adults.


·      Those who reported taking four or more courses (in or after school) felt significantly more competent than those who had taken fewer than four.  This training appeared linked to the perceived competence and the interest levels of those working with older adults.


·      Generally the respondents seemed to be informed about sexuality norms, work and volunteer involvement, disability/activity levels, and general physical health declines in later life.


·      A bias score coupled with a knowledge score suggested some knowledge by clinicians of age related issues and a positive bias of older adults in the aging process.


·      Attitudes revealed in examining responses to two vignettes suggested that all respondents felt neutral to comfortable in working with older adults, with 60 percent feeling “very comfortable.”  However, comfort levels were significantly higher in working with younger clients, and scores indicated less comfort in working with an aging mother as opposed to an older father.


            Contrary to what is most commonly reported in the literature in terms of the common theoretical approaches to treating elderly clients (family life cycle; contextual family therapy; and the strength-vulnerability model), Yorgason et al. (2009) noted that the respondents in this study reported utilizing the following techniques:


·      Solution focused therapy

·      The lengthened engagement or joining process

·      Psychoeducation

·      Listening, life review and reminiscence


            They list differences between older and younger clients that provide some insight into working with older adults.  First, older and younger persons face different developmental challenges; second, wisdom that comes with age can be beneficial in solving practical life problems; third, a slower joining process might be appropriate with older adults; fourth, older adults may be more invested than younger adults in the therapeutic process; and five, the therapeutic process may be of shorter duration than for younger adults.  The authors conclude, “[t] hese tendencies may be due to a limited sense of time left in left, and in being selective in how resources are employed” (p. 42). 


            Weiss (1995) discusses life review as a therapy that is particularly useful to therapists treating aging clients.  Its purpose is to provide the individual with a means for the successful integration of experiences, which offers the possibility of adaptive change that “injects new meaning into an individual’s life” (p. 170).  It involves reminiscence and has the advantage that it is more appealing and less threatening for many older adults than conventional counseling interventions.  Weiss (1995) proposes it together with cognitive therapy.


Conclusion


            Given current demographics aging is bound to become an issue that MHP’s will live with, no pun intended, on a regular basis in their practices.  Yet aging has received underwhelming attention by way of the literature and studies relative to other stages of the lifecycle.  A number of approaches have been developed that are relevant to these  individuals and the family system responses to these transitions.  It is an area that requires training and desensitization in terms of the existential and other biases that sometimes impact the attitudes of clinicians and others.


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